Life is unfair to women ... again

Either that or it's easy to get used to complaining.

According to a study by Rutgers University, women's bodies release all sorts of oxytocin when they have an orgasm. Oxytocin is the bonding hormone and it tends to make women feel close to the person who is, ah, shall we say "present" when the orgasm happens. Men's bodies don't do this. And the good complainer writer at The Frisky presents the "problem" as follows:

I’ve long called it the orgasm curse—that thing that happens after great sex with a guy. He immediately goes from an insignificant satellite orbiting your universe to the goddamn sun itself. But why? He didn’t even do anything that impressive. You still find him as annoying as you did an hour ago, but you can’t stop thinking about bearing his children.  Logically, you know this is completely nuts, but you can’t seem to stop it.

I hate to come across  all traditionalist and so on but what the hell is the guy doing in bed with you if he is just "an insignificant satellite orbiting your universe" that you found "annoying" just an hour ago?

Women could try to only have sex and orgasms with decent, caring, interesting guys who are already important to them instead of annoying guys who don't matter to them. It's an approach that is sometimes called being a responsible, rational adult.

PS: Call me easy if you want, but any time someone is good enough to bring me to orgasm I tend to find that pretty darn impressive.