Monday, May 14, 2012

Mad Men second thoughts

The callow youth* over at Slate are a favourite spot for me after writing my own thoughts about a Mad Men episode. They are reliably trite and shallow. And they sure do like piling it on the characters they hate.

Anyway, this time Patrick Radden Keefe and Julia Turner have it in for Don. Keefe says he's lost his respect for Don. And Don does smack down Ginsberg but good this episode. The problem is that Ginsberg richly deserves it. He describes Don to Roger as a tall guy with a  short temper and then is obnoxious towards Don and belittles his ideas. That's asking for it: pure hubris and it got what hubris always gets.

Turner, however, goes on to a limited defense of Betty that also deserves some comment.
But I do want to take a moment to defend Betty in this episode—or at least to marvel at a scene that perhaps demonstrated some growth. There was remarkable tenderness over that overdone steak in the Francis kitchen. And though Betty does, perhaps, wonder if she’s “bet on the wrong horse” with Henry, she also offers an uncommonly supportive little speech ...
But here is the thing, that "supportive little speech" is not unusual for Betty or someone like her are all.
This is a setback. You’re always thinking about other people, and then you’re angry because no one’s thinking about you. But I am. It’s so easy to blame our problems on others, but really we’re in charge of ourselves. And I’m here to help you, as you’re here to help me. We’ll figure out what’s next.
First, note that it is a lie. Betty doesn't think of Henry. She is a selfish and self-centred jerk.  No, this is exactly the speech that passive-aggressive exploiter like Betty would trot out in a situation like this. Her own interest is what drives her: Henry has to perform because she needs to feel competitive with Don. If you asked someone who hadn't yet seen this episode for an example of a person that Henry is always thinking of but who never thinks of him, Betty is the first example they'd come up with. If Betty had really changed and really cared, she would have started with an apology.


* Update, just in case it isn't obvious, all these insults are a joke of sorts—I am using the same sort of summary condemnation of Keefe and Turner that they use in describing characters on the show.

Mad Men: Dark Shadows

If you like your irony to be about as obvious as a slap in the face with a greasy fish and your moralizing trite and obvious, then Percy Bysshe Shelley is the poet for you.

And that is why Ginsberg quoting from Ozymandias is a problem. Anyone who knew the line well enough to trot it out on command would already know it is ironic. If you follow Stan's advice and go read the rest of the poem you'll discover that you don't need to read the rest of it because the irony is already obvious before you get to the line that Ginsberg quotes.

And the episode is called "Dark Shadows".

And it's got Betty in it.

"But you hate Betty!" Maybe, but I don't hate her nearly as much as the screenwriters do. There is a moment in this episode where Megan teaches Sally how to cry. She tells her to keep her eyes wide open and think of something that makes her sad. Well that's how the scriptwriters crank out Betty's parts, they keep their eyes wide open and think of some woman who treated them badly.

I love Roger though. Did anyone else look at this sketch



and think of Roger? It's a perfect Roger line in that nothing ever changes with Roger but he is always promising to change everything. You can just imagine Roger in the garden with Eve telling her that eating from the tree of knowledge of good and evil will change everything. Except we don't have to imagine because it happens to poor Jane who ends up learning that knowledge of good and evil means looking at your new apartment and tasting the ashes in your mouth.

I love Roger. By the way, notice that Roger tends to charm people by telling them the truth and not by lying to them. When Roger asks Ginsberg to help him come up with an idea to pitch the Manischewitz people, Ginsberg cynically assumes that Roger will present them as his own ideas but when he is with the potential client, Roger cheerfully owns up that that he had the creative people come up with some ideas so "I could show you what we are capable of". The devil is a team player.

Rivalries
This episode was reminiscent of "The Summer Man", although not nearly so brilliant as that episode because it was rivalries that drove everything. Don goes into the office where Ginsberg and Peggy work and sees the subversive stuff Ginsberg has drawn up and that inspires him to try and match the guy.

By the way, the folder labelled "Shit I gotta do" is a false note. That is what someone would do in 2012.

But back to the moment. We've had a whole lot of set up beginning with Roger explaining to Bert how fishing is a competitive sport, not man versus fish but man versus man. And then we get a whole lot of male posturing. And then Joan shows Don a lot of work going into a portfolio and complements him for putting together "a lot of voices" in the creative department.

Okay, next Don goes into the office on a holiday and then he stands up and for a full 15 seconds we get a seemingly pointless shot in his office of him standing, lighting a cigarette and stretching in his office. Except that for the entire shot we can see Don's semi-erection which is clearly visible through his pants. Don't believe me? It starts at 5:15 on the iTunes version of the episode. It's not an accident. It's right in the centre of the shot.

Then Don walks down the hall and goes and spies on Ginsberg and then he goes back to his desk to prove he still has it.

And there is a rivalry between Betty and Sally that Sally, thanks for small mercies, wins.

I won't list them all.

As Woody Allen once parodied Hemingway: It was a good episode but not a great episode.

Final thought, the writers themselves are better of far better use of irony than Shelley. There is a lovely moment when Henry is having his midnight snack and talking to Betty and says,
"I bet on the wrong horse Betty."
He literally means in picking Lindsay to work for. But we immediately think of Betty. But the fascinating thing is that she doesn't see that. She is so wrapped up in her own petty rivalry with Don and Megan that she doesn't see it.

Now it's off to see what other people thought.

Friday, May 11, 2012

A little light culture: Revisiting Lady Lazarus

One of the things that I do to keep myself sane is to remind myself every once in a while that any political party that really represented my interests would be lucky to get one percent of the vote. When elections roll around, I don't go looking for anyone to represent me but rather pick the candidate who seems the least of the evils available that year.

A similar lesson should apply when it comes to culture. I love Mad Men and so do lots of other people but three percent of the television audience would be a huge audience for the show. Most people don't watch and they don't care. AMC, the network that produces the show, seriously considered not renewing it this year. They aren't losing money on it but they could probably make more from some other alternative. It could be cancelled anytime. For all we know AMC executives may have already decided that this is the last year.

But even if the show were as big as the Beatles it wouldn't matter that much. Cultural events rarely amount to anything political. A revolution that could be televised wouldn't be revolutionary.

Which brings me to NPR's Ann Powers who is rather miffed at the fact that Don Draper didn't like the Beatles tune he listened to. And the sentence she starts off with his telling:
Don Draper sure has a lot of power for a fictional character.
Meaning what? I suspect that it means that for Powers we're in a culture war and she is terrified Don is on the other side. She worries that he has a huge influence on how some young people are going to understand the sixties and how we understand the sixties is going to have a huge effect on the culture wars. Powers is worried that all the cool kids watching the show are going to think less of the Beatles and psychedelia because Don Draper pulled the needle up and walked away unimpressed. She may even be right.

Relevant disclosure: I sure hope so. Reading her piece on the subject gave me new hope that the series is going somewhere worthwhile this year after all. The only thing for sure is that the show is going to disappoint someone. It will either disappoint Ann Powers and people like her or it will disappoint me and people like me. We'll see. The fortunate thing is that it doesn't matter. Nothing really important hangs on the outcome. I'm not sure, though, that Ann Powers sees it that way. I suspect that rather a lot hangs on it for her.

But let's take a  deep breath and consider a few important facts. Let's start with Mad Men itself.
Never in the entire history of the show has it managed to attract more than one percent of North Americans. Walk down the street and remind yourself that most people you pass not only don't watch the show, the vast majority have never seen a single episode.

Now consider the Beatles. They had a much larger impact than Mad Men but most people alive in 1966 did not buy Beatles records. They were aware of the Beatles because they got a lot of news coverage and radio airplay and there was very little choice in music in those days. For most people that year the Beatles meant the two sided single with "Eleanor Rigby" and "Yellow Submarine".

Very few people bought Reviolver and even fewer sat around listening to "Tomorrow Never Knows" and the ones who did were oddballs and geeks.

But that shouldn't stop us. I mean, come on kids, Hey, hey they're the the Beatles! Lets listen to it backwards maybe it will make more sense! Or maybe not. Here is the couplet that we hear just before Don pulls the plug:
Love is all and love is everyone
It is knowing, it is knowing
Oooh deep. Well no, it's fatuous tripe, sophomoric and shallow right to its core. And sophomoric on acid doesn't make it any better. I know, it's not nice to point this out but it's true.

Let's back back to a few facts.
  • Two years after te release of Revolver  Nixon was elected president. He won an even bigger majority the next time. Watergate deflated that for a while but Carter was a one termer and he was followed by Reagan.
  • The late 1960s would provoke a huge normalcy backlash. In 1971, The Waltons would debut on TV and it would be one of the most popular shows on television for the next decade. A few years later it would be followed by the movie American Graffiti and the TV series Happy Days. Not only would these shows reach a huge audience, they would reach that audience with a sustained narrative. 
  • The Beatles, OTOH, reached people with a lot of songs that could be easily separated from narratives people didn't like. With that in mind, which of the following sets of Beatles songs do you think reached the greatest number of people at the time and since?
  1. "Tomorrow Never Knows", "She said, She said", "The Walrus", "Strawberry Fields", and "Come Together".
  2. "Yesterday", "Eleanor Rigby", "When I'm 64", "Hey Jude", and "Something".
  • For years and years after 1966, Madison Avenue went on making millions of dollars selling cigarettes, Jello, Canadian Club, Oldsmobile 98s, Kraft Dinner, Revlon, Swanson TV Dinners. No matter how important they are to you, all of those products had a bigger cultural impact than the Beatles.
And that is why Don Draper makes the right choice to pull the needle up and go to bed. No matter what they taught you in the Pop Culture course you took at university because you needed an easy A, the Beatles did not, as Ann Powers seems to think, transform, "pop marketing as much as music".



Thursday, May 10, 2012

Manly Thor's Day Special: Under a court of law it wouldn't look like an accident

But it's not.

Does Vincent Kartheiser flub these lines? Logically, it would make more sense if he'd said, "Under a court of law it would look like an accident. But it's not." Maybe it doesn't matter. You know what he means. Women are allowed to say and do things that sound and look like invitations to you to get involved with them without committing themselves.

Oh yeah, this is all from an episode of Mad Men by the way. You don't have to have seen the episode to get the point though.

And I know, as everyone who did see the episode will say, it's Pete. But we have to care about these characters even though they are fictional characters. Obviously we don't treat them the same as real people. We don't get up and call 9-1-1 when a fictional character falls off a bridge but we should feel bad. Pete for all his failings is supposed to be a human being and we deprive ourselves of a proper enjoyment and understanding of fiction if we forget to respond to characters as human beings deserving our love and concern.

And have you never had the thoughts that Pete has here? These are thoughts we are all trained to keep to ourselves but all men have them. Maybe it was years ago so we don't remember or maybe we just don't have the courage to vent the angry thoughts that Pete does:
Work it over in their minds, turn it off and on when they feel like it. We're just there, waiting at attention.
Maybe you've never been there but I don't mind admitting that I have. I know from many years experience that you shouldn't express such feelings out loud. Best case scenario, people will laugh at you. Worst case scenario, you'll be branded as an unenlightened pig.

But women will do that to you. And it's not about sex or, to be more precise, it's not only about sex.

Let's go back to the dialogue (with the error I noted at the top noted):
Pete: Why do they give you a glimmer of hope in the midst of rejection. A little thread to hang on to. A misplaced word. Suggestion of the future.

Under a  court of law it wouldn't look like an accident. But it's not.

Harry: So we're not talking about Megan and we're not talking about Trudy?

Pete: Why do they decide what's going to happen?

Harry: They just do.
There is a lot more wisdom in Harry's response than we might give him credit for. That is the answer. Women just are the gatekeepers when it comes to love and sex. And the irony is that that is the result of the sexual revolution and feminism. In a society where women are repressed, their latitude for sexual expression is extremely limited by their being veiled or cloistered and some man, either her father or husband, is "supposed" to control her sexuality. In order to free women to say yes they also had to gain more power to say no.

Let's have a look at another of Pete's questions again:
Why do they give you a glimmer of hope in the midst of rejection. A little thread to hang on to. A misplaced word. Suggestion of the future.
The two choices aren't "yes" and "no" but "yes" and "maybe". Why? Part of it may be a cynical exploitation of power. Part of it may be the fear of having to acknowledge to herself that she is cutting you off after leading you on. Part of it may be the fear that you'll show up outside her room  screaming and shouting in the middle of the night or that you may kill yourself or something.

Most likely, though, she does it because that is the way she likes it. She was attracted enough to you to flirt with you and even if she decides, for whatever reasons, not to allow anything else to happen she doesn't want to close the door and lock it.  It suits her vanity to think it might be possible even though she won't. She is still denying herself but she is the one doing the denying and there is a certain power that goes with that. (That's why "negging" her and walking away instead of giving her a chance to reject you often works as a seduction technique. It leaves her feeling powerless and a lot of women will go to surprising lengths to regain that power.)

In the case of Pete, the internal logic of the show works against the interaction with Beth ever being convincing. On Mad Men people end up having sex too quickly. In real life, the relationship between Beth and Pete would have been more protracted. They would have known one another longer before anything happened. And a lot less would have happened. They might have just kissed and then stopped and then things would have built up until they had sex. And then Beth would have thought, "I can't do this," and pulled out.

As Gaius noted in the comments, the moment when Beth makes the heart on the fogged window in the carpark next to Pete was the most unbelievable moment in the episode. I agree but I think that is largely because they left out all the emotional stage-setting that would have had to take place around that affair. For the show, love is sex but for most of the rest of us, sex is a kind of love. But if they had taken the time to build up the story a bit, then the heart would have made perfect sense.

There is a woman I was in love with many years ago whom I occasionally run into. We're both married now but every time we talk she says or does something that suggests that, for her, the door is still open. I wouldn't pursue her in any case but even if I did I would be crazy to take those hints as assurance of her acceptance. For whatever reason of her own, she won't close that door and she can't help letting it show when she is with me.

She feels entitled to do this and society backs her up. If I let any similar hints drop in her direction, it would be tantamount to asking her for sex and it would seem that way in a court of law. This is not just a metaphor. We never can be sure her acts are intentional enough to condemn her. We'd unhesitatingly condemn the man who did the same thing.

And that, as Harry says, is just the way it is.

And the unspoken assumption behind this is that men will always be there waiting, as Pete says, "at attention". And yes, that does mean everything it seems to mean.



Wednesday, May 9, 2012

Portrait: Ellipsis

The use of ellipsis—leaving out parts of the narrative—is a feature of A Portrait of the Artist as  Young Man. That said, "ellipsis" is a misleading word. In sentences, we use an ellipsis when we are confident that the reader either does not need or will be able to fill in what is missing. If I say, "Rudolph invited the whole gang, Donner, Blitzen ..., to his party", I do so confident that you know the names of the other reindeer. That is to say, we both know how the sentence would be filled out if I did fill it out. Or else I use ellipsis confident that you will never miss what is being left out. No such assumption can be made in the case of the sort of ellipsis that Joyce uses. We can guess, of course, but I think we have to be very wary of filling in too much.

To repeat what I said a while ago about Waugh, to get Joyce you have to read only what is there and not project patterns of your own onto the text.

Here is an example of what I mean. The edition I am using features and introduction by Richard Brown whom we are told is at the University of Leeds and the author of James Joyce and Sexuality. I don't know or care enough about contemporary scholarship to know whether he is any good or not but he has enough of a reputation to have been asked to contribute an introduction. Commenting on the ellipsis between Stephen's visit to the infirmary and Christmas dinner with his family, Brown says this:
He [Stephen] is pushed into the school's 'square ditch', bringing on a bout of fever and an early return home. (Introduction to the Everyman's Library edition)
But there is no evidence in the novel to back this up. Young Stephen imagines in his fever that he might be sent home but we never find out that he is. Given that the story resumes after the ellipsis with Stephen at Christmas dinner, the more likely assumption is that he got better, stayed the rest of the term and then came home. But the important thing is that we don't know. The story is not the stuff Joyce left out but the bits he put in.

And if we pay attention to that, the thing that is going to jump out at us is that all three of the sections in book one end with a mourning for severe moral retribution. In the first, very short, section, we end with Stephen being told to apologize or an eagle will pull out his eyes by Dante. (This is a punishment not unlike the kinds that Dante the poet imagines in the Inferno.) At the end of the second section, Stephen imagines a martyr like death for himself and sees the brother mourning the death of Parnell through feverish eyes. In this third section Mr. Casey is reduced to crying for Parnell by the sever admonitions of Dante. In the final section, Stephen will triumph over an oppressor by bravely going to the rector to make his case after he was unfairly punished.

And in between there are a number of ellipsis.

We shouldn't make anything too neat out of this.

Sex, sex sex and Ireland
Since Mr. Brown has opened the subject of sexual politics, let's consider that a bit.

"Dante" apparently comes from young James Joyce's inability to say "auntie". The Dante in this story is not, as I suggested in an earlier post, his Aunt but nurse for the Dedalus children. This Christmas dinner is the first that Stephen has been allowed to sit with the adults and not with the rest of the children. Are we supposed to think of Dante the poet when we read of Dante the nurse? How could we not?

But what does she say about the sexual politics of the story? Women are very much associated with the home and with Ireland for Joyce and yet there is a disturbing misogyny that runs throughout Portrait. Women are idealized and they are demeaned. Consider the comment on Dante that Stephen makes to himself while assessing the argument he has just seen:
But why was he [Mr. Casey] then against the priests? Because Dante must be right then. But he had heard his father say that she was a spoiled nun and that she had come out of the convent in the Alleghanies when her brother had got the money from the savages for the trinkets and the chainies. 
Here we have what is perhaps the most pathetically empty moral trope of modernism: if the other side are hypocrites then we can dismiss them without having to be any better ourselves. And notice how heavily the case has been loaded here. We might sympathize with Dante if we thought she had been sent into the convent because her family were too poor to support her and then came out when the family came into some more money (a not uncommon occurrence in those days). But the story Stephen's father has told him forecloses even that possibility for empathy by letting us know the money was obtained dishonourably.

And Dante is the only woman in this book with a voice. All the other women are either domestic and emotional like his mother or whores like the women he goes to for sex later in the story. That she is an object of fear is telling.

The other thing that happens is that these idealized women are also a symbol for Ireland. Young Stephen, like Gabriel Conroy in "The Dead" keeps associating the woman he loves with Ireland. And like Gabriel, he only seems to be able to get really excited about ideal women at some distance as well as an ideal Ireland that is somewhat at a distance.

The love that only dares drop hints about its existence
And then there is Oscar Wilde. Here is the way Joyce opens an essay on Wilde:
Oscar Fingal O'Flahertie Wills Wilde. These are the high-sounding titles that with youthful haughtiness he had printed on the title page of his first collection of poems, and in this proud gesture, by which he tried to achieve nobility, are the signs of his vain pretences and the fate which already awaited him. His name symbolizes him: Oscar, nephew of King Fingal and the only son of Ossian in the amorphous Celtic Odyssey, who was treacherously killed by the hand of his host as he sat at table. O'Flahertie, a savage Irish tribe whose destiny it was to assail the gates of medieval cities; a name that incited terror in peaceful men, who still recite, among the plagues, the anger of God, and the spirit of fornication, in the ancient litany of saints:'from the wild O'Flaherties, libera nos Domine". (Oscar Wilde: The Poet of 'Salomé')
The connection with Stephen Dedalus here is obvious. His fate also seems spelled out in his name—the deacon who became first Christian martyr and the builder of mazes who became entrapped in his own only to escape by some marvelous means of his own devising. But what of homosexuality?

What? Well, if we go back to the text, one of the things suggested in the final section of the first part, where Stephen is vindicated by his audacity in going to rector, is that a number of boys who are about to be expelled or punished may have been engaged in mutual masturbation. We never know for sure, it, "smugging", is just presented as a possibility. And it is further suggested that one of the boys is likely to be leniently punished for reasons that are sexual in nature.

Where does all that fit in with Joyce's rather ambivalent picture of sexuality in the home?

Note what Joyce says of Wilde's sin:
Whether he was innocent or guilty of the charges brought against him, he undoubtedly was a scapegoat. His greater crime was that he had caused a scandal in England ... But the truth is that Wilde, far from being a perverted monster who sprang from in some inexplicable way from the civilization of modern England, is the logical and inescapable product of the Anglo-Saxon college and university system, with its secrecy and restrictions.
And we can add, what Joyce was perhaps too squeamish to say, that it was also the inevitable byproduct of boys-only boarding schools such as Conglowes*. And it is deadly combination, this sexual shame that everyone shares and yet we cannot resist joining in when some convenient scapegoat is found to saddle with all our sins. Sometimes literally deadly.

Why mention this at all? Partly because Joyce keeps hinting at it in the final section of book one. But also because it parallels what happens to Parnell. Parnell's sin is like Wilde's He was not the only adulterer in Ireland and yet he was made a public scapegoat.

Final thought from the essay Joyce wrote about Wilde:
His own distinctive qualities, the qualities, perhaps, of his race—keenness, generosity, and a sexless intellect—he placed at the service of a theory of beauty which, according to him, was to bring back the Golden Age and the joy of the world's youth. But if some truth adheres to his subjective interpretations of Aristotle, to his restless thought that proceeds by sophisms rather than syllogisms, to his assimilations of natures as foreign to his as the delinquent is to the humble, at its very base is the truth inherent in the soul of Catholicism: that man cannot reach the divine heart except through that sense of separation and loss called sin.
Is that also true of Stephen Dedalus? I think yes, it is. Of course, I think that is true of everyone. But we get no genuine sense of the loss that goes with sin in this book, a point I'll come back to. It's only in Ulysses that we see Stephen aware of his loss and sin. Here we just get the sinning and not the sense of being a sinner. Being Irish, Joyce sometimes seems to only be able to think of sin in sexual terms. He's right about the Irish having sexless intellect but they also have a notion of sin that is deeply eroticized.




* It is also the inevitable byproduct of girls-only boarding schools and summer camps but that never seems to bother as much does it?

From the Office

I am a huge fan of the Liturgy of the Hours and recommend it for all. It is worth doing just to go through the Psalter regularly. The LOH is an obligation for some but for lay people it is an option. You can say any part you want and not say any part. You can do it regularly or irregularly.

There is a real pleasure and joy, however, in following the rules. Choosing one part,, three parts, five parts (five is what I do) or eight parts and saying them every day according to the rules.

For a lot of people, the real gem of the LOH is the Office of Readings, also known as Matins. This is surprising. Under the old rules—back when, as a friend of mine joked, ships were made of wood and men of iron—it was said between midnight and dawn. Nowadays, you are allowed to say it at any time of the day. But I keep meeting people who tell me that they like to say it as soon as they get out of bed and that it is their favourite part of the LOH.

It is also one of the parts that was most heavily reformed. Under the old rules, it was more devotional and now it has been made, as the name suggests, an office built around reading of and thinking about texts. It shouldn't have caught on because it has something to offend everyone. For traditionalists, it is clearly reformed in a way that takes it away from the spirit they cherish and for reformers it is clearly the part of the office that requires the most discipline and also the part that is most closely tied with the tradition of the church because of the nature of the readings featured. And yet, despite being set up as if to put off both sides of the Catholic culture wars, this office is surprisingly popular among lay Catholic.

The big reason for its appeal is the readings. You get to go through sections of the old testament that otherwise never appear in liturgy and you get to go through them at length. This season we have been going through Revelation. (I say "we" because even if, like me, you usually have to say the office alone, you do so knowing that others all over the world are saying it with you.) Along with the old testament reading, there are readings ranging from the early church fathers to Vatican II.

These second readings are magnificent. We Catholics are poorly catechized nowadays and most of us wouldn't otherwise get a chance to read this stuff.

This morning's second reading is a real gem from the letter to Diognetus. Here is how it starts:
Christians are indistinguishable from other men either by nationality, language or customs. They do not inhabit separate cities of their own, or speak a strange dialect, or follow some outlandish way of life. Their teaching is not based on reveries inspired by the curiosity of men. Unlike some other people, they champion no purely human doctrine. With regard to dress, food and manner of life in general, they follow the customs of whatever city they happen to be living, whether it is Greek or foreign.
Confronted with a text like that, I think we need to start with the strangeness of it. Think of "whatever city ... whether Greek or foreign". There were "Greek" cities all over the know world when this letter was written but no Greek empire. That's a hard thing for us to imagine. Imagine world in which you might find a city following English customs with pubs and double decker buses in Mexico and in Syria and in India but with no political ties to England. Imagine what it would be like if all Syrians had the choice of remaining in their own cities and living one set of customs or moving to this English city and living a more cosmopolitan life inspired by 1920s London. Something like that was true of the soil that Christianity sprung from.

And who are these other people the writer is after? At least one of the things that is going on in this reading is that the writer is distinguishing Christians from Gnostics. You see it here:
Like others, they marry and have children ...
This was something the Gnostics tended not to do.  On the other hand, there is clearly a dualism at work in this reading. It is not the hard dualism of the Gnostics but it is dualism.

There is other puzzling and yet familiar stuff.
They share their meals but not their wives.
And you think, Who did share their wives? Probably, not the Gnostics because they were misogynists who regarded female sensuality with disgust. Not the Romans for whom female adultery was punishable by death. The Greeks perhaps? Or is this a refutation of some criticism that was hurled at early Christians because wives were very much part of their communal social gatherings?

The main message is about the knife edge balance of living as an alien (metic) in the world but not of it. The knife edge of enjoying the pleasures this world offers but not being ruled by them.
They live in their own countries as though they were passing through. They play their full role as citizens, but labor under all the disabilities of aliens. Any country can be their homeland, but for them their homeland, wherever it may be, is a foreign country. Like others they marry and have children, but they do not expose them. They share their meals, but not their wives. They live in the flesh, but they are not governed by the desires of the flesh.
This is not a lament like a blues song—"wherever I lay my hat, that is my home"—nor is it an excuse for licentiousness as , again, in a modern blues song. This life is presented as a blessing. There is no pleasure a Christian has to forgo to be a Christian: you can have sex, eat good food, believe in Darwin but you do all this conscious that your real purpose, your real life, lies elsewhere.

Does that speak to you?

Tuesday, May 8, 2012

Sorta political: Dan Savage's bad, bad day

When you wind up your "anti-bullying" presentation by calling the people who disagree with you "pansy-assed" you can be pretty sure that something has gone deeply wrong. That's where Dan Savage found himself last week.

That this was a morally stupid thing to do is pretty obvious. But it was also pragmatically stupid in that these remarks have turned people who otherwise supported Savage against him. And if that wasn't enough, it was factually stupid in that the historical basis for the claim that offended people isn't there.

Let's start with the tone. Suppose you were hoping to convince people that Obama's health care legislation is a bad idea and you knew you were speaking to a crowd that included a number of people who not only voted for Obama but who revere the man. Do you think you'd win them over by saying, "Let's ignore the president's bullshit"?

Next, let's consider the audience we are trying to reach. Savage claims this:
"People often say that they can’t help with the anti-gay bullying acts because it says right there in Leviticus, it says right there in Timothy, it says right there in Romans, that being gay is wrong."
What people Mr. Savage? Name them. Don't make a claim like that unless you can back it up.

And notice that we aren't talking about bullies here. No one, not even Dan Savage, is so delusional as to pretend that bullying is inspired by the Bible. Yes, there are people like Fred Phelps but everyone knows that the overwhelming majority of schoolyard bullies are not Bible-believing Christians. (If anything, the people most likely to be bullies are exactly the ones most likely to respond positively to expressions like "the bullshit in the Bible".

So why is Savage bullying Bible-believing Christians? Because he thinks they aren't supportive enough of his anti-bullying campaign.

A cynic might wonder whether he is really trying to reach these people at all. It sounds to me more like fame has gone to his head and he got up in front of an audience and started enjoying listening to his own moral self-righteousness and got carried away.

All of that stupidity, however, is nothing compared to Savage's grasp on history.
We ignore what the Bible says about slavery, because the Bible got slavery wrong. Tim -- uh, Sam Harris, in A Letter To A Christian Nation, points out that the Bible got the easiest moral question that humanity has ever faced wrong. Slavery. What're the odds that the Bible got something as complicated as human sexuality wrong? One hundred percent.
Okay, let's start with the most obvious: If slavery is the easiest moral question society has ever faced then how is it that millions of people got it wrong for centuries? The Greeks had slaves, the Romans, had slaves, the Egyptians had slaves, the middle ages had slaves, Thomas Jefferson had slaves. Boy that Jefferson, flubbed the easiest moral question humanity every faced he must have been stoooopid!

And here is a puzzle Savage may want to think about: when Christianity first spread through the Roman and Greek world it did so because it appealed to the poor and downtrodden including slaves. How did that happen? And when slavery was finally defeated in England and then the USA it was evangelical Christians who led the charge? How did that happen?

(By the way, think through the logic here: X made a mistake about something important in the past therefore the odds that they are wrong about some other thing are 100 percent? Hey Mr. Savage, did you ever get anything important wrong before? If you did then we should all ignore you by your own logic. If the only people we have to listen to are the ones who've always been right about all the important questions then that leaves exactly no one.)

Christianity, like any other culture that aspires to survive has evolved over the years. The Bible says many things and some things have always been emphasized and others de-emphasized. There is a plausible case to be made that Bible-believing Christians should start reading the Bible in ways that would allow them to be supportive of campaigns to protect young gays from being bullied. To do so, by the way, wouldn't even require that they accept homosexuality morally. All you need argue is that whatever the Bible says about homosexuality, it says far more often and more loudly that we need to protect those who are victims of the bullies.

And the over-whelming majority of Christians already believe this. There is no convincing to do. Savage's problem is that he wants more than that. He wants them to also say that there is nothing wrong with men having sex with other men, a move that some Christians are willing to make and others are not. Which is why he is such a bully himself. He has no tolerance for dissent.